Psychologist reveals what to say instead when your child says, “I can’t do it”

Parents often say ‘You can do it’ to encourage children facing challenges. Psychologist Annie Simpson suggests this phrase can dismiss a child’s feelings and create conflict. Instead, phrases like ‘Not yet’ and ‘What’s the first tiny piece’ foster a growth mindset. These responses acknowledge emotions and guide children toward manageable actions. This approach helps build lasting resilience and confidence in young learners.